Social gatherings, parties or whatever that occasion maybe, no matter how simple and grand the celebration accept that there will be an abundance of pressure and lots of stress and there will be conflict no matter how you tried to hide it.
First, never invite people. Just party to yourself and be alone to celebrate whatever you are celebrating. That bad?
You know that there will be people at your "party." You must be prepared. Expect the unexpected so that you wont get nervous on how many people will arrive. Assume that you will have invited guests but there will be door crashers.
Be a nice host or hostess. Let there be somebody at the door greeting guests or whoever will arrive at the door. Don't let them have a guessing game of who's who whoever you are and whatever you are doing there. Be courteous and polite. Learn some good etiquette and introduce your guests to the people inside the house. Don't frown and make a fuzz. Most of all be respectful. You want to be the "star" of the house because its your house? Learn to include "people" in your picture. Don't hug the "show" to yourself. Don't invite other people if you want the SHOW to yourself only. You can do the picture-taking with your close family without your friends, relatives or guests. Really, if that's the show is all about " selective photography" do not invite your relatives.
Always prepare extra food. Don't let your guests starve. Offer drinks first before you start the program or how long the program would be.
Always make sure that the guests knew that the venue opens and starts at appropriate time and the attire would be formal or informal. Let them know so that your guests wont be wearing ballroom gowns on informal party or just bathing suit in formal party. If you don't like the person who arrived at the party then why invite that person. You don't need to ignore or snob the person, just don't invite or give invitation. Don't be childish or annoy yourself because you are envious or jealousy has taken an invasion in your narrow-mind. Remember: you don't need to invite somebody you don't like. STOP being a plastic to yourself!
Elephants in your party? Sure why not? They know too much! You learned from these elephants and you will learn to do something good. A good plan makes the best interest. A party has a great plan and great planner always succeed.
BE YOURSELF.
LAST but not the least... LEARN the art of gratitude. Thank your guests whether you don't know them personally, whether they are your relatives that you don't like, or door crashers. Be grateful to those who brought a plate or bowl of food or be thankful most especially to those who brought GIFTS. You don't like the gifts or you don't appreciate the gifts? Maybe you can ask for the receipt and ask for a replacement in "sizes." be thankful that they spare an hour or two to be there and share your happiness. Do not let your visitors clean the plates and clean your house. That's rude! It's your party, you invited the people in your party therefore BE PREPARED to feed and entertain them. Even dogs know how unfair a person is so show some respect.
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