You don't know what's in the minds of the critic now and whatever in the minds of those they criticized. There is always an explanation to those criticisms and to find out how they reason out from each other let us tackle them one by one. I will be the example to such criticisms.
I love beautiful dress, clothes from fashionable tops to pairs of jeans, skorts, shorts and whatever is trendy out there. I love clothing that is colorful and what best suited my curves (yuck!) and my skin complexion. I love fashionable shoes. It doesn't matter if these accessories are expensive or cheap as long as they are not out of fashion. I'm not conservative so better to dress what is " in" in today's time. I can do the alterations of old clothing and you wont find out if that's old material because some of my clothes look appealing and look new even if I worn those clothes since 20 years ago. I took good care of every clothes and shoes and bags with so much care. Hindi ako burara. I'm not a slob.
I am economically thrifty. I shopped more often if they are discounted items out there. Hindi ako tanga to buy expensive clothing and accessories that are overpriced. Pricey but cheap looking dress? That's not my "economics."
Do I look "social" when I wear non-expensive dress? Maybe! Maybe not. It depends on how you look and how you perceive what "sosyal" means. You can wear very pricey dress but when you wear it, you looked like a drag or you looked cheap. So dressing-up varies greatly on how these critics are. Are these critics "sosyal?" or pa-up-starts lang? Some people dressed like they owned a mansion and drives expensive lamborghini or ferrari but they have nothing to eat. Look inside their fridge. They value material things over their own health. People's personality have differences not too many have similarities in their own choices. They sent their kids to prestigious Colleges and Universities and they end up without homes. They end up borrowing from families after every families, loaned from the banks, borrowed from neighbors and what they end up to? War with the neighbors including their own next of kin. Were they able to pay their loans and able to keep their homes? No. Their children who already graduated from University can't even find a good job. These are the many consequences of what "education" leading to finding jobs. Sometime graft and corruption played a part and somehow some of them become fortunately financially wealthy. It's like a gamble. You'll never know what you will end up.
When it comes to children. There are children who are not keen on wearing expensive clothing and accessories but they have expensive taste on electronics such as computers worth $1,000+ and digital cameras worth over $ 400- $700+. Some kids are different in their taste and whatever they like can't be compared with other families and children of other parents out there. Kids can repeat wearing their favorite clothes if they want to as long as they washed and cleaned them. As long as these kids knew personal hygiene.
Do not compare your wealth from anybody's wealth. Be happy when you are healthy because that's your wealth. Too many rich people who are materially and financially well off but some of them are looking for internal organs, they have chronic illness and no amount of money can save them. Whatever! Health is wealth! Bitterness is something you have to get rid of. Despise it. Be happy with what you have because envy can make you sick.
Do not compare your kids to my kids. Each kid is different. You want the best for your kids but I want the very best to my own kids.
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